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Are my standards too high for not wanting to date a girl who does or did any sort of male adult entertainment? Like stripper, OF model, bottle girl, hooters/twin peaks girl, etc. Matched with a girl who did one of these and she told me I was being unfair
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Anonymous 23h

If it’s a dealbreaker it’s a dealbreaker but her feelings are valid too. But at the end of the day you wouldn’t have been compatible anyway if that’s your boundary.

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Anonymous 23h

as a woman i dont want an onlyfans model or stripper boyfriend. I think knowing your boundaries and ending it is FAR healthier than getting into a relationship and then being jealous/upset at what they do

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Anonymous 20h

It’s totally okay to have that as a standard as long as you aren’t a jerk to those who do that. Like have your standards but don’t be an asshole about them.

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Anonymous 22h

As a man id say im completely different from you bc id let my gf fuck whoever she wants but you’re still valid. It’s not unfair or insecurity. Some guys have different boundaries than others. If she doesn’t like it she can quit or find someone like me that doesn’t care

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