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What are some horror stories abt guys you’ve dated?
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Anonymous 1d

I was SAd

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Anonymous 1d

Omg so many with the same guy. Worst was probably when he talked about Dahmer and how he relates to him (in the why for killing people and getting off to it).

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Anonymous 22h

I found out my last ex (first partner I lived with and longest relationship at the time) cheated on me, confronted him, and he admitted to it immediately. Broke up, still had to live together bc of the lease. Things were peaceful until I started seeing another guy (my now husband) and on my birthday my ex sent me a huge paragraph about how my now partner is a racist, rapist, all this insane shit. I waited and replied the next day and fully crashed out on him because he knew I’ve been raped —

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Anonymous 22h

A little. I’m just getting back out into the dating world. It’s tough but I want to find someone that clicks. I’ve learned a lot of guys don’t like a woman who makes more than them😐

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Anonymous 3h

He liked his nipples played with…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Very sorry to hear that. Hope he faces consequences for his actions

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23h

What?!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

Yea…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23h

What was he like otherwise?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

Well, not great. Lazy and very immature and used me for what I provided him (clothes, place to sleep, food). Found out he was hurting my pets as well.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23h

How did u even get in a relationship with a guy like that?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

Great question… he was pretty and nice to me and he was my first relationship. Learned a lot and let’s just say I have high standards now

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

So ur not going to just date a guy cuz he’s “pretty and nice to u” from now on?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

Well I have a list of requirements like having a job, being able to live independently, is respectful to people, actually cares, has goals and ambitions

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

How do u filter for that, out of curiosity?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

Just ask questions and have an open conversation. Get to know someone first before committing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

Have u had luck?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22h

And I don’t take that shit lightly at all. He immediately apologized because I’d never been so aggressive and explosive with him. At that point I told him to pack his shit and figure it out because I was being nice enough letting him stay at the apartment. Fast forward a few months, I found out from a friend my ex tried to steal my ESA (which he always hated) just to spite me. Also tried to get me to pay him for the TV I bought MYSELF

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