Ask Women on Sidechat | There’s nothing worse than being sad and then someone comments “you seem sad” 🙂like yea I am leave me alone

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Ask Women 3w

There’s nothing worse than being sad and then someone comments “you seem sad” 🙂like yea I am leave me alone

Anonymous 3w

I mean it's a bit annoying, but there's worse things. Kind of sweet that someone would care enough to notice imo, even if I would like to be left alone it's a bit heartwarming.

Anonymous

#1 3w

I guess so, but it kinda makes me more sad like I just wanna be sad alone and hate when other people point it out. Especially when in that moment I’m trying my hardest to be positive and friendly in convo and think I’m doing a good job and then all of a sudden they say I seem sad. It’s like what? I was trying to act happy 😭

Anonymous

OP 3w

Don't be around others if you just wanna be sad alone ngl

Anonymous

#1 3w

I try but kinda avoidable with roomates and going to class

Anonymous

OP 3w

Ah yes, I see the dilemma. Unfortunately the only thing would be to either find a third space to hide in or change how you react (easier said than done). What's been making you sad? If I may ask anonymous original poster

Anonymous

#1 3w

I’m not sure, could be the fact that I graduate this year on maybe I’m just homesick. Just been stuck in that mood of not wanting to socialize if that makes sense even though nothing specific has happened

Anonymous

#1 3w

Yes, I enjoy going to the library and sitting there sadly it’s not open too late. Going to try to find an alternative spot to go

Anonymous

OP 3w

Some actionable solutions are good. I get the not wanting to socialize mood for sure. Sometimes it's a healthy dose and other times it's self loathing and isolation for me. Graduating seems scary but exciting, not a lot of people ever accomplish that or come as close as you so I am proud of you random stranger 🙂‍↕️

Anonymous

#1 3w

Thank you 🙂I appreciate everything you’ve said and your advice 🤍