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Is this actually good advice?

Anonymous 4d

I think it would be better to give a genuine compliment instead of that’s someone I’d like to know and ask for their number and then you reach out. And then you can tell them to have a good night (preferably regardless of if they reject or not )

Anonymous 3d

This would be more likely to work on me than trying to stand me in a corner and force my phone number. Then, if he seems okay, I’d reach out on a burner number to see how it goes and then my actual number.

Anonymous 4d

I think it’s pretty good advice. It removes a lot of the creepiness, the social pressure, the possibility of retaliation, etc etc. not everyone’s gonna like it, but those that don’t would probably hate being approached to suddenly anyway, so you’re not really losing anything

Anonymous 3d

I’d prefer it

Anonymous 4d

like 2 said i think a genuine compliment (non sexual) might be better, but this is a way better way to approach someone while giving them the choice to reach out or not. op ur weird for not asking this question in good faith tho

Anonymous 3d

Yes. The part about giving her your number instead of asking for hers is VERY good advice. It removes the stress of being contacted and having to think about your safety.

Anonymous 3d

Look up the study “Weight status at age 18 influences marriage prospects. A population-based study of Swedish men”. Using BMI as a proxy for obesity, researchers made a nice little graph that you can scroll down and look at. Obese men were least likely to be married. 55% of normal weight men were married vs 40% of obese ones. Yeah it’s a factor, but it won’t stop you if you have other positive traits.

Anonymous 3d

That actually sounds really good. I feel bad making people respond sometimes.

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Anonymous 4d

They throwing that shit straight into the garbage Brody

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Anonymous

beestboy 4d

Yeah that’s what I was thinking but I wanted to see if they’d pretend it would work on them

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Anonymous

#5 3d

At least I would have to sneak out the back or or call a friend to come over yk

Anonymous

#3 3d

Yeah, sad that it’s just another entitled incel who’s been brainwashed into thinking that his lack of basic decency is not what’s repelling women like the plague. They blame height, money, and other shallow stuff no one cares about because they’re too chicken to do actual reflection.

Anonymous

OP 3d

You’re a chicken. You’re too scared to self reflect, and it’s much easier to blame women for not wanting to date the entitled mess that is you. Too scared of empathy. Too scared to be wrong. Too scared of who you are. Don’t be a 🐔. Go to therapy.

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Anonymous

#7 3d

I agree

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Anonymous

#7 3d

Woah, touched a nerve there

Anonymous

#7 3d

You don’t even know me lol, those are crazy things to assume about a person

Anonymous

OP 3d

Deny it all you want, deep down you can still feel it. Act all surprised and indignant. Tell yourself you’re not really like this. Convince yourself that everyone can’t see right through you if you want, but that won’t change reality. Your behavior is filled with clues, and it is so blatantly obvious to most of us that many don’t even bother talking to you because they think you’re hopeless. Will you prove them wrong, or chicken out again?

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Anonymous

#7 3d

Yeah honestly I’d prefer if people like you didn’t “bother talking to” me

Anonymous

#3 3d

I was initially asking in good faith, actually, but in retrospect beestboy is probably right.

Anonymous

#3 3d

Plus I just can’t imagine it’s very attractive when a guy apologizes repeatedly for the inconvenience of his presence, especially as a first impression lol

Anonymous

OP 3d

You don’t like reality checks

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Anonymous

OP 3d

Your comments demonstrate a twisted value system. One that prioritizes selfish entitlement over interpersonal safety. You don’t care that women like the idea of not being pressured for their number because you don’t like it when they have the option to choose not to contact you. Because you feel entitled to women.

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Anonymous

OP 3d

You’re really making it obvious why you keep getting turned down. No one likes an entitled man who doesn’t self reflect or care about others.

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Anonymous

#7 3d

Yeah man I’m sure people are actually super into my 250+ pound body covered in hair and the only reason I haven’t had my first kiss is because I’m unknowingly a despicable and vile person who feels entitled to sex or something (even though I have cherished friendships with the women in my life and I’m basically asexual)

Anonymous

#7 3d

The reason I’m questioning whether it’s really good advice is not that I don’t care about womens’ comfort, it’s that advice like that hasn’t really been super effective in my *personal experience*

Anonymous

#7 3d

I mean I look like if jesus was a defensive lineman lmao

Anonymous

#7 3d

I don’t like people who are mean to strangers

Anonymous

OP 3d

Sometimes being mean is the only thing left to try

Anonymous

OP 3d

People who think the way you do don’t often listen to anything. Being nice gets you nowhere with those people when they treat your kindness like it’s their birthright. Being agreeable just enables their entitlement. Calling them out isn’t even mean. God knows they need it. Only mean thing I did was call you a chicken. But even that has truth behind it.

Anonymous

#7 3d

What are you smoking?

Anonymous

OP 3d

regardless of what u look like, the mindset u demonstrated by saying how u wanted to see if women would “pretend” to like this is extremely unattractive. it’s good advice because it makes whoever ur approaching feel more safe and respected by giving them a choice. sometimes the choice is no, which is part of life.

Anonymous

#6 3d

Oh yeah haha, with the demanding a number thing, I’d only do it once. When the first harasser texts me, I save and block his number. Then every other guy who tries it gets the first guy’s number. So he has to experience the harassment he inflicted.

Anonymous

#6 3d

The burnt remains of the missing Epstein files

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Anonymous

#7 3d

You didn’t try literally anything else

Anonymous

#7 3d

Please just find a hobby.

Anonymous

#3 3d

Yeah, that’s true, I should have been more charitable. I initially just commented “Yeah, you’re probably right”, but that immediately spiraled into more despair and distrust, which prompted me to reply with that instead.

Anonymous

#7 3d

Like what?

Anonymous

OP 3d

i understand how that happened, but u have to have a stronger mentality than that. don’t let the comment of one guy (who is a known troll btw) change ur approach that drastically

Anonymous

#3 3d

I’m sorry about that, thanks for understanding.

Anonymous

OP 2d

Like kindness. Statisically one of the most attractive and sought-after characteristics in romantic partnerships