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My girl is rethinking our relationship and doesn’t know if she can continue doing long distance with me but I am doing everything to hold on
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Anonymous 6w

Im so sorry but I think she's soft launching a break up, long distance isn't everyone's cup of tea

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Anonymous 6w

Yeah if she really loved you she would be putting in the same effort as you and long distance wouldn’t be a dealbreaker for her. Best would be to see if she wants to end it now and move on

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

What insinuated that she hasn't put in effort though

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

What I meant was she would be continuing with the effort but now it sounds like she doesn’t want to anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Yea i was just put off by the "if she really loved you" bc u can definitely love someone but not see something like distance working out

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Oh well you can disagree I just think if two ppl are really in love with each other they’ll do whatever it takes to make it work whether there’s distance or any other obstacles

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