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Why do many in college women of color seem to have extreme preferences for white guys. So much so they will date guys who look way worse than them or are below average.
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Anonymous 12w

Just because you can’t find the men attractive doesn’t mean they aren’t.

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Anonymous 12w

Internalized racism could also play a part

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Anonymous 12w

As a woman of color I have no preference and have had situations with more or less every race, but when the school is 80% white, that’s kinda the vast majority of the dating pool

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Anonymous 12w

that doesn’t necessarily seem like a race thing. i fear girls of any color will often date “less cute” guys for their personalities

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Anonymous 12w

I see stuff like this and it’s almost always a white dude. When it comes to the women ik same ethnicity as me it’s the same thing. They basically won’t look at their own unless they are really good looking.

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Anonymous 12w

for me personally its not even that i have a preference for them- theyre just mostly the ones that approach me

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Anonymous 12w

So if you saw this guy in an app or irl you’re going to be interested you’d swipe/talk and give your number potentially

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Anonymous 12w

Wealth.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

If that were the case alone then Asian and Indian and Nigerian guys would be above them or the same at the least

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Everyone has their own type, maybe he’s very attractive to her

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

You and I both know she wouldn’t date a dude with a face like that if he wasn’t white 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Um no actually I wouldn’t make that assumption and I don’t see anything wrong with bros face😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I think ur just shallow asf. Relationships aren’t all about attraction, and again you don’t know what others may or may not be attracted to lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

He’s not ugly. If he’s cool I’d swipe right on him on a dating app sure. This is so odd of you op

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

All I’m saying is I think if we’re being real that face is below average and his height and skin color are carrying him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I’ve dated short guys who everyone thought were below my league, but I found them attractive. Personality and interpersonal connection play a huge role in dating. I think you’re just miserable

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

His face is below average according to YOUR STANDARDS bruh

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

So you think he’s above average then

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

Your dating preferences mean nothing to this convo

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 12w

They are below average objectively facially so nah they aren’t physically attractive

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Objectively isn’t even a word that works when you talk about appearance.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 12w

Alright so what’s his rating 1-10 visually for you

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