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Ur a senior in college on a first date. He’s 1 yr older, has a degree, a good job, nice car, is over 6ft, and works out but he lives with his parents the first year out of college. How much does that change things for you?
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Anonymous 1d

It doesn’t change anything

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Anonymous 1d

It depends whether he has a weird codependent relationship with one or both of his parents. If it’s for financial benefit to pay off debt/loans that makes sense, but if his parents are still telling him what to do and influencing his life based on what they want instead of what he wants, that’s weird

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Anonymous 1d

You just listed all the reasons it isn’t a red flag. In this economy it’s a super smart move to live with your parents, especially that soon after college

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Anonymous 22h

first year out of college so i wouldn’t be too worried about it especially because he has a job. now if it’s clear that he’s not planning on moving out in the future then id be worried

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Anonymous 1d

In this economy atp I expect most younger people to tell me they still live with their parents 😭

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Anonymous 1d

That doesn’t change anything? I expect most people to live at home after college

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Anonymous 1d

In my culture living with your parents after college is normal so I wouldn’t judge it at all

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Anonymous 1d

changes nothing for the first date

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

No, I listed one reason where it could be a green flag, and one reason where it could be a red flag. If it’s just for financial reasons, then that’s cool, but if his parents are controlling then it’s a red flag

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I wasn’t even talking to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

It’s a first date it wouldn’t even be possible for you to know that until you showed up

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