Follow hot plus size influencers or bodies similar to yours to get more used to seeing that figure as hot and worth caring about. Whatever you’ve got, someone is very into it

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Get a boudoir shot done of yourself

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I have an average sized frame but always wanted to be skinny so I was always kinda self conscious. Honestly the fake it (confidence) till u make it has worked for me, and wearing clothes I knew I’d feel confident in (basically making a rly conscious effort to look like I dress well, which boosts my confidence).

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I hate that you’re feeling this way. Find you a man like Eats pussy like he’s getting paid. Confidence will skyrocket.

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Find yourself some supportive friends and don’t care about what others think. If you’re comfortable and healthy great ! But I do suggest some light walking not for weight loss but it just feels good. I always feel confident after a good walk even if I am walking to just grab coffee or something. Sunlight makes me happy.

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Ik this is gonna sound like the ppl who tell you to lose weight but that’s NOT what I’m saying!!! I think you should try going to the gym or doing something that involves movement (like strength training) and help you appreciate all the amazing things your body can do for you! Movement is scientifically proven to help you feel better (& something I’ve experienced for myself!) so if this is something you’re able to do, I would at least try! Exercise is my own form of self care & has helped me ❤️

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There’s a lot you can do! Get a few articles of clothing that makes you feel attractive, new makeup etc. Watch/ listen to body positive YouTubers or other type of content.

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Learn to stop giving a fuck what u look like and instead only care how ur body feels. I’ve had the most awkward body my whole life (no boobs, but somehow a belly, no butt, and square) and I just don’t even think ab it. I’m way more interesting than what my body looks like

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You have to love yourself through and through. To do so Indulge content of people that look similar to you. And remember girls e-bait how friendly and accepting they are to people that don’t fall in-line with their beauty standards, so I don’t want you to be disappointed if it’s all performative. Don’t seek approval from others

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Build some muscle real confidence comes from strength

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