Anonymous #2 5w

You would be fine if they did it with someone else a week before yall met?😭

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Anonymous #1 5w

What’s a few months?

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Anonymous OP 5w

3+. Just so that it feels less like they want to get into a relationship for sex

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Anonymous OP 5w

Yea cause we hadn’t met yet? Like you shouldn’t dictate your sex life on IF you meet someone

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Anonymous #2 5w

Yeah but I’m just saying how don’t you question their intentions if it’s been only a week before they met you? I’m not saying it is definitely gonna be a problem down the line

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Anonymous #1 5w

Makes sense. What if they broke up like 3 months ago, would you that need more time like compared to a hookup?

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Anonymous OP 5w

That*

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Anonymous OP 5w

I can’t question someone’s intentions based off a decision they made before they even met me. If I have a hookup one night and then the next day a guy hits on me and wants to talk. I’m not gonna not talk to him because “oh I should wait a month before I talk to anyone cause I had a hookup”. I’m gonna talk to the guy and before it gets physical get tested. Which I get tested on the regular anyway cause everyone should

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Anonymous #2 5w

I mean like kinda? Like if you had a hookup the day before and the next day how do you suddenly want a serious relationship? Unless you’re someone who is open to both or doesn’t know what they want

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Anonymous OP 5w

Let alone the fact that you might not even have gotten over the hookup so quick and might still be reminiscing about it

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