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If there is one somewhat common kink you can think of that needs to be stopped, in your opinion which one is it?
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Anonymous 1w

Can’t think of any because whatever consenting adults want to get up in their alone time is none of my business. I’d say the obvious things like kid or animal stuff but those are just crimes, not kinks

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Anonymous 1w

Cnc that shit is crazy to me

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Anonymous 1w

For women kinks “cnc” for male kinks that weird epidemic of incest porn that’s popped up everywhere lately Genuinely if you are that traumatized that it ends up reflecting in some extreme inhumane kink like scat or cnc or getting treated like an animal then u need therapy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Kinda agree. It’s either consent or no consent, no in between 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Facts EVERY “romance” book that my friends like are full of it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

heavy on the incest porn :// too much stuff abt dads/daughters and sisters

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

The interesting thing about that phenomenon of it popping up is because step sibling/mom/whatever stuff is pretty low cost in budget and because of that they switched it to

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

As someone with a kind of cnc kink, the way it’s portrayed in media is super bad. Beating can be a form of cnc, it can be helpful for SA survivors to feel more in control bc everything (and I mean EVERYTHING is talked about before hand with regular check-ins to see if all parties are still comfy)

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

*not beating (fucking autocorrect) I meant bratting

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

trauma isnt always the reason for that, sometimes it’s just how people are. and they can’t choose their kinks or what turns them on lol. it’s strange to me how people are attracted to scat, but it’s acceptable if they just watch content and do like RP behind closed doors since they’re sanitary. what’s not acceptable is telling people they need therapy just because you’re making a problem out of something harmless. people into scat rarely do ACTUAL scat play because they also find it gross.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

Wtf is “bratting”

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

It’s people acting like “disobedient children to get forced into their place”

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

No? It’s playfully pushing boundaries (that are discussed and consented to beforehand) “Come here” “What are you gonna do if I don’t 😏” “I’ll come over and make you” “But first you’d have to catch me right?” 🏃‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Extremely good take, also shaming people for harmless coping mechanisms is so weird… even if the kinks aren’t from trauma, as long as everyone’s safe and consenting I don’t care

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

What other reason would there be to roleplay a horrific crime?? Or to act like kids or animals?? This is not mentally healthy behavior

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