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My bf won’t let me check/look at his phone. Am I being crazy for thinking it’s weird??
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Anonymous 1w

If you can’t check the time on his phone without him flinching. Dump him.

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Anonymous 1w

He legit told me it’s because “I always find something” (last time it was him being in a discord gc of pics of girls in underwear an bras)

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Anonymous 1w

He even changed his password

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Anonymous 1w

Maybe ask him why

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Anonymous 1w

I mean my bf and I don’t rly look at eachothers phones. We both like some privacy and just feel uncomfortable. But the big thing is we both TRUST eachother, I have no reason to need to look at his phone. It sounds like off the bat you can’t trust him for whatever reasons, that’s already a red flag if he’s not making you feel secure in the relationship, with that in mind I could see this potentially being another red flag

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Anonymous 1w

Reading your comments. Yeah girl sounds like he’s hiding something fr

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Anonymous 1w

1000%

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

if it seems extensive, take the steps you want to take

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 1w

Thanks queen. He dead ass changed his password because I checked his phone whenever I came over (were long distance an I see him maybe every 3 weeks)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

So he’s just telling on himself that there’s stuff to find

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yea I don’t believe in looking in someone’s because I respect privacy. But if I grab a man’s phone to change a song or to check the time and a he flinches… that’s when I no longer answer his calls. He is an insecure man. You’re gaining by losing him.

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 1w

Yeah I asked him for his phone yesterday (I wanted to turn the lights on) and he asked me “why?” Multiple times but I just said “because I want it rq” and he js got mad

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

uhhhh he was in a group chat sharing women's pictures without permission? are we just moving past that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Ok yeah that would have been an instant break up for me. We women need tos hand up and stop dating these man whores wtf is he doing in a while SERVER for that shit

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

bruhhh BREAK UP WITH THIS HO. he’s not your husband

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Learned new info abt the server. He joined it to see if he could find pics of a girl who he went to hs with cause she does OF

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Break up with him or perhaps blow him up

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