Anonymous #3 6d

Im not I don’t live with them just the past is unfortunate. Those should’ve been years I was at my peak

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Anonymous #3 6d

Ppl usually regret they didn’t have the social or lively experience. College is usually a one time unforgettable experience and some waste it on other things and have nothing to really tell back to ppl when they graduate about how college life is

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Anonymous #4 6d

For guys the college experience only exists if you’re in Greek life or perusing an easy degree and a conventionally attractive white guy who pulls at bars. Truth be told if you aren’t white the college experience doesn’t exist by default. It also doesn’t exist if you have real goals beyond the four years academically

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Anonymous #3 6d

By default the college experience is for everyone who attends. PWIs are not the only colleges to exist so to say only white frat dudes can have an experience is just racism. I know a shit ton of non white guys in fraternities and not in one with great college lives

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Anonymous #3 6d

And they have real goals. You can balance school and a social life

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Anonymous #4 6d

The college experience is not the default for most people in stem who are men just being real. The us and most schools are “pwis” and most public schools Greek life is the epicenter of social life and gatherings. Minority men are often relegated to friend groups at best.

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Anonymous #4 6d

Most people have goals but do little to go after them which is why most people who have the college experience are business, accounting, marketing, finance majors who all think they’ll be working on Wall Street but will be lucky to break 6 figs in five years

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Anonymous #3 6d

Everyone can have friend groups and if you can’t balance school and your social life in stem that’s a you problem. It may be harder but it’s possible. I’m a stem major and I still balance school, a part time job, and my social life

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Anonymous #3 6d

So HBCUS don’t have POC with social lives. Only white frats with business majors have social lives. you don’t see ANY other ppl outside having fun

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Anonymous #3 6d

Those are still very high demand and needed fields. Why are you in college if you think you’re the only major that’s important. Otherwise the major doesn’t need to exist. I hate stem guys like you. “Yall are lucky my major is so hard I have no time to even go out”. How is that my problem. You chose that major not me

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Anonymous #4 6d

Most people including minorities do not attend hbcus. I am speaking on a male point of view which depends on your definition of fun and college experience.

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Anonymous #4 6d

Are you reading? I never once have suggested having a friend group is some unattainable thing or rare. It’s just got nothing to do with college experience as people have friend groups at all stages of life

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Anonymous #3 6d

Yeah I’m a minority idiot and my social life is perfectly fine at my PWI bc I actually know how to have a work life balance. It’s called time management skills

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Anonymous #4 6d

Because you’re a woman lol

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Anonymous #4 6d

All of my friends have great goals, good social life, Greek life balance, internships in the summers and grades are still fine and will be graduating in the spring

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Anonymous #4 6d

Cool you’re a girl you’ll be let in the parties regardless

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Anonymous #3 6d

Uh no? Women can also struggle in college. You’re actually just a fucking stem loser that thinks his life is so hard but will be worth it compared to others. An ego and elitist mentality

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Anonymous #4 6d

So you think most minority males who attend pwis are balling out and having the same college experiences as the average white student yes or no

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Anonymous #3 6d

I don’t go to fucking parties. Partying isn’t the only way to have fun. And I’m black it’s much harder than CPA. You’re a bigot

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Anonymous #4 6d

Like I love how instantly you start resorting to insults when all I’ve done is speak plainly

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Anonymous #3 6d

They can and they have. So sorry you think we all have to struggle just bc we’re minorities

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Anonymous #4 6d

It’s a yes or no question

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Anonymous #3 6d

You’ve spoken racially and with a lot of misogyny

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Anonymous #3 6d

Yes. Is that good enough for you?

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Anonymous #4 6d

Answer the question

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Anonymous #3 6d

Already did.

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Anonymous #4 6d

Delusional lmao

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Anonymous #4 6d

Who said I had no friends I feel like you’re projecting seeing how angry you got so quickly

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Anonymous #3 6d

How am I delusional. I said yes. Are you denying other ppl’s experiences bc it doesn’t align with how you feel? Pathetic

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Anonymous #4 6d

Is that not what you did to my first comment you replied to? Idk how a minority would unironically argue that there is little racial disparity in the college experience socially lmao

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Anonymous #3 6d

The social disparity has nothing to really do with making the most of their experience? As if they can’t have connections or friends at all?

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Anonymous #4 6d

Do me a favor and give me a quote where I said they can’t have connections or friends

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Anonymous #3 6d

Do me a favor and explain why the disparity would mean something to the experience

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Anonymous #4 6d

We can continue when you can provide me the quote. I rather not continue speaking if you misrepresent me at every turn and reply

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Anonymous #3 6d

Oh tf well

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Anonymous #4 6d

I’d rather not speak to someone that tried to diminish experiences of others bc of how they personally feel like college goes

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Anonymous #2 6d

as someone currently in college what do you recommend doing specifically?

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