Ask Women on Sidechat | Why is it that girls only see me as a fun short term. I’ll go on dates we have a great time and then get that they aren’t looking for anything serious and don’t see me as that guy but still wanna keep seeing me casually. What am I doing wrong??

Join communities on Sidechat Download

Why is it that girls only see me as a fun short term. I’ll go on dates we have a great time and then get that they aren’t looking for anything serious and don’t see me as that guy but still wanna keep seeing me casually. What am I doing wrong??

6

6

Anonymous 1w

You’re not necessarily doing something wrong, sometimes that’s just how matchups go

18

🍓

Anonymous 1w

Have you been open about wanting a serious relationship, not anything short? I made that extremely clear when I was in the dating space that I refused anything casual. I’m not saying you are doing anything wrong but that probably should be something you emphasize. Also how are you meeting these women?

7

Anonymous 1w

Some girls will want to keep you on the radar if another man doesn’t “do good enough”

1

Anonymous

#1 1w

It just seems to happen a lot and I don’t get it

1

Anonymous

OP 1w

A lot of people want casual these days

10

Anonymous

#3 1w

Or to sneak in when you start talking to another girl

1