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I can’t find anyone who likes me for me. The bar is so low for men these days and I feel like I’m far above it (leftist, empathetic, responsible, feminist), and I know I don’t “deserve” women or their bodies, and yet I still find myself w no one. What do?
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Anonymous 3d

Just stay patient like the rest of us looking for our special someone

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Anonymous 3d

I think I’m decently attractive, I’m personable, I shoot my shot when the time is right, so I know it isn’t for a lack of trying. I try my best to be respectful and never pressure people, but everyone I find seems to never go past the 2nd date. I am at a loss for what I could be doing that’s so off-putting. I’m not perfect, but I feel like I’m ahead of my peers when it comes to attractive qualities

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Anonymous 2d

The bar for men is high?

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Anonymous 2d

Girls can literally say they hate men in general and it’s fine

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Anonymous 2d

The bar for men has literally never been higher.

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Anonymous 2d

Honestly, that sounds like a you problem. There are literally millions of happy couples, and you're saying there's not a single man or woman around who you can have a healthy and happy relationship with? You really think you're that much better than everyone else, and that everyone other than you is broken? You might need to work on that before resuming dating (or give up because you're too prideful, stubborn, and lazy to be a good partner).

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Anonymous 2d

What on earth makes you think the bar is low for men? It’s never been higher

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

You’re not necessarily being off putting, sometimes people just don’t click. It’s better to break things off after just a couple dates than to lead someone on knowing you’re not really into them that way

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