Anonymous #2 1w

we usually warm up, like forepkay and fingering and all that, tmi but he got GIRTH and in lowk small, we haven’t tried lube, I hear it’s painful atleast from my friends..

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Anonymous #1 1w

so how does one know it’s tearing 💔 like I can pee fine, he’s in the military so obviously we gotta wait weeks to months to have sex again, so idk if it’s like normal like that, he’s my first body and im not rlly comfortable talking to a parent about it💀 and asking them question, I am a grown adult but I don’t want them picturing that😭

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Anonymous OP 1w

Lube is only painful if you use unsafe kinds, try to look for unflavored/unscented lube without heating effects

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Anonymous #2 1w

If he’s rough with the fingering, his fingernails could also be scraping you and causing pain/bleeding

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Anonymous OP 1w

Well the bleeding of course, any weird feelings after downstairs. But you can always get a doctor’s visit to check it out to make sure the tearing is not super bad

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Anonymous #2 1w

it 100% could be his fingernails, he forgets to cut them a lot bc he has so much going on with the military and his business, but regardless of that it could be…. I also don’t get periods anymore bc of my birth control, sometimes I randomly start bleeding knowing he’s on his way home from month long military duties, not sure why my body just does that, but I never bleed when he’s gone, only the day I know he’s coming home. Or sometimes after sex. We also discovered I have a rare allergy to cum😭

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Anonymous OP 1w

omg men r disgusting

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Anonymous #4 1w

usually a week, he’s my fist body, and he’s in the military so he’s gone a lot, so usually its like twice a week, then hold off for months while he’s away then right back at it, sometimes more during the week if he was gone for a long period

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Anonymous OP 1w

I hope he washes under his nails before you two get busy 😭 can I also ask what you mean by a “rare allergy”? Do you only feel symptoms internally or do you break out if it gets on your skin (like arm or leg etc)

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Anonymous #2 1w

If you haven’t talked about these things with a doctor/obgyn yet I definitely would

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Anonymous OP 1w

Men are such pigs

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Anonymous OP 1w

Lube is definitely less painful than no lube fwiw, that's what it's made for

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Anonymous #2 1w

he does wash his hands don’t worry! idk if cum allergy is common hence why I used “rare” never rlly heard of it, but I feel the symptoms internally more extremely then externally, it’s usually a burning sensation until I piss it all out, and externally I usually get really red, sometimes incredibly itch and spotty, once had hives 🫩🤞

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Anonymous #1 1w

(That mAn)* is a pig

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Anonymous #7 1w

my man got some girth to him, and im naturally incredibly tight, im a skinny girl🫩 plus he’s my first body so im not like a giant gaping hole

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Anonymous OP 1w

I mean I’m 6ft and it still happened to me, its probably just a his size thing

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Anonymous #7 1w

And I’m not big but I’m not skinny and it wasn’t my first

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Anonymous #1 6d

Tf I do

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Anonymous #4 5d

So, how often do you two generalize? I’m sure it makes you feel better in some capacity, but how’s socializing like that? Isn’t it miserable?

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Anonymous #10 5d

I fear by asking this question you are fitting into a not so favorable stereotype

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Anonymous #9 5d

I asked the question so we could talk about it, and I understand there are reasonable explanations for why one might not want to revisit something that makes that perspective feel valid, but I had no part in whatever was done to make them feel that way, it’s either lazy as shit to write it off as something all encompassing, or there are some major delusions going on to maintain ego through things that hurt others.

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Anonymous #9 5d

When it comes to men who are players generalizing women, I’ve seen it align with the second one more often than not, but I’ll refrain from judgement, especially since talking down to people online is probably all they’ve done on that side of things, and that’s not as bad as breaking people’s hearts and manipulating them.

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Anonymous #1 5d

Men are much better at avoiding things, so you’ll actually never be able to pull off being as much of an asshole as them, but good luck tho I guess!

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Anonymous #10 5d

I fear if you felt offended at us calling out men’s behavior you’re the problem not us babe. Don’t let a hit dog holler

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Anonymous #1 5d

Not offended at them calling out HIS behavior, that’s exactly what I’m doing, but do you see how easy it is for me to say you two? How off base would it have been if I just assumed every woman does that? Or said that women are X because those two said that men are disgusting?

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Anonymous #1 5d

I have no clue why tf I’m even bothering to speak on this since some absolute sleazeball of a human being is going to lose his shit at being reminded of his disgustingness and validate this perspective once again through lashing out verbally, but I would like to put it out there that for everyone’s sake, generalizations are usually bad for the person generalizing and the people interacting with them.

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Anonymous #10 5d

Neither of us said all men. It’s not about you so why are either of you trying to make some stupid one. “That man”. “What did I do don’t you mean him not all men”. Well NO SHIT. Just bc I used the word men, didn’t mean all freaking men. If you don’t do it you shouldn’t have be offended. This has literally never been a problem until men have felt offended of women calling out men’s awful behavior. Bc years back no one has actually cared.

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Anonymous #1 5d

Get off this girl’s pass

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Anonymous #1 5d

Post*

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Anonymous #1 5d

Idk bruh, I just saw the first person who replied getting downvoted for saying “(That man) is a pig”. It seemed much more like people fitting someone into a generalization off a couple words rather than downvoting for stating the obvious. But I could have been wrong. I’ll take my leave, if this conversation is over.

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