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I will repost this tomorrow cause I would love to figure out how to fix this! I’ve never attracted a girl from who I really am , it’s always the version of me that seems confident when in reality I’m insecure. I don’t know exactly how to change
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Anonymous 2w

From someone who used to be insanely insecure (and still is a little), it’s such a mental block and is rlly hard to overcome. At some point it became to exhausting to care so much. I finally found someone who I felt 100% comfortable with and that rlly helped shift my mindset. And he has his insecurities too and I don’t mind that he does, we all do. The person u end up marrying will see all ur insecurities and should love u for who u r. So be open and okay with being insecure sometimes, bc that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Helps overcome it, especially when u can find 1 person u trust to talk to about it. It also depends on what ur insecurities are tho

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