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Okay ladies I was gonna ask this girl out but I need to know what is proper etiquette for hanging out with a girl as a friend. For context we’re going to a bar tab and I want to know if me like holding her hand or having my hand on her back
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Anonymous 2d

Is “too much” but then again it’s also really crowded in those bars and want to keep her close by so she doesn’t feel uncomfortable around so many people

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Anonymous 2d

Does she know you’re hanging out as friends or does she think it’s a date

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Anonymous 2d

don’t hold her hand. don’t put your hand on her shoulder. it’s safe to assume she will pay her own bill. if you want to look out for her just keep an eye on her drink when she’s not, tap her on the shoulder if you want her attention or she can’t hear you. i’m not touchy-feely with my friends so i don’t really touch my guy friends at all but this depends a ton on the person so follow her lead

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Anonymous 2d

Is it like a date or just hanging out?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Hanging out

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Okay so no hand on the back, hand on the shoulder. Tapping to get attention, you invited her out so ask if she wants to split or just open a tab and tell her to add to yours

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

at the end of the day women are just people. treat her like a guy friend that you can’t make personal insults towards and you should be fine

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