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My girlfriend wants me to get rid of my AR15. She just moved in with me recently. Never told her I owned one. She doesn’t feel comfortable having it in our apartment. How do I convince her there’s nothing to worry about?
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Anonymous 2d

Have you asked her why she feels uncomfortable? I personally would also feel uncomfortable so I can give my own reasons if that would help.

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Anonymous 2d

Well unfortunately there’s lots to worry about, statistically speaking having a gun in the home greatly increases your chances of getting shot, accidentally or otherwise. On average having one in your home makes you much less safe compared to not keeping one in the home

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Anonymous 2d

Everyone’s said it multiple times here lol but have you asked her why she feels that way? Some people have negative histories with guns, my bf got rid of his pistol for me for that reason

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Anonymous 2d

Well did you ask why she’s not comfortable? Especially since you didn’t mention it I’d be uncomfortable too. It’s much more of a danger carry than just a hand held pistol. Are you only using it for hunting? Do you have it bc you just like it? Do you have it in a safe out of harms way?

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Anonymous 2d

is it in a safe?

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Anonymous 1d

So statistically, if you’re female and you get murdered, it’a usually by a partner or ex partner. Especially if you’re pregnant. If she discovered the gun after moving in… it’s probably not in a safe. The lack of gun safety measures (a safe) probably aren’t helping. On top of that, you’re here asking us to change her mind about what she’s comfortable with, which suggests that maybe you’re not doing a great job with the empathy and connection.

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Anonymous 2d

Has it shot anyone on its own?

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis4.4 2d

Boo I was liking your comments today but this one is a miss

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

They’re all misses

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis4.4 2d

Fair enough lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

Love ya 🫶🏼

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

This! Does anyone else live in the home/have access to the home or gun? I own guns myself and have hunted all my life and have never considered owning an AR as it seems excessive, but it’s understandable that gf is nervous esp. if she wasn’t raised around that

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1d

Maybe y’all aren’t ready to live together

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