
Let’s be honest here. If you don’t have the latest Kendra Scott or “E Newton”, and don’t dress like them your automatically an outcast. You can talk to them yea, and they’ll be nice for a moment but as soon as something or someone catches their attention, you’re irrelevant all over again. Doesn’t matter if you’re smart or intelligent, nice and kind.
or rather misogyny and patriarchy encourage ALL women to place a lot of value in their appearance, but conventionally attractive women are less likely to have done the work to deconstruct that for themselves bc they have experienced less hurt from that than women who don’t fit what is “pretty” as well as they do