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Would you date a guy who doesn’t drink alcohol? Would this bother you? Secondarily, is it weird if he talks to you in a bar when he’s sober? Been insecure about this for a while, please help (20m)
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Anonymous 3w

I don’t mind if he doesn’t drink as long as he doesn’t mind me drinking occasionally

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Anonymous 3w

Yes. No it won’t. No it wouldn’t

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Anonymous 3w

I don’t drink so no and I’m usually DD at a bar so double no 🤣

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Anonymous 3w

Will he smoke with me?

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Anonymous 3w

As a person who occasionally drinks, I wouldn’t mind this. Honestly, I think I might prefer it.

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Anonymous 3w

I drink but I respect being sober it’s much healthier for you I don’t think anyone would judge you for that. I am also a girl and my boyfriend is sober and we have been together 2 years. Trust me ur not missing out on any “experience” together.

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Anonymous 3w

I’d much rather a guy who doesn’t drink.

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Anonymous 3w

Too young but if you were in my age range: wouldn’t be a dealbreaker as long as you didn’t mind me having a beer and/or getting high sometimes. My response when younger would’ve been pretty much the same without the high part.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Do you drink?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

😂🤝

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Nope. And if I do it’s only socially and not as much as other people. So I’m kinda always sober lol

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 3w

Yeah I don’t mind occasionally, basically everyone does, I just feel like I will be missing that experience with her

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

No 🫤

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Honestly I would fear judgment for my habits then

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

You don’t have to drink. I don’t think there’s any experience with drinking that you’d be left out of. You can even do toasts and such with nonalcoholic beverages.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 3w

Tbh I feel like I’m left out of the mindset everyone else is in

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Good point honestly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I don’t really know what mindset you are talking about honestly

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 3w

Like the euphoric feeling of being buzzed

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I wouldn’t call it euphoric honestly. It’s not like the movies make it out to be or anything like that. If you don’t want to drink or can’t drink don’t do it.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 3w

Yeah I don’t think I will, but I do feel like people have a different mental state

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Have you ever tried weed? Maybe alcohol isn’t for you. Obviously assuming you are in a legal state🥴

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Technically did try it but not for me due to personal reasons

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

How old are you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

19 turning 20 soon why

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