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Ask Women 2d

Idk what to do, was supposed to go on a date with this guy I’ve gone on a couple dates and I just found out he and his ex refollowed each other, thought things were going well idk what to do.

Anonymous 2d

Trust your gut and lose him theres actually no explanation to validate that. He isn't over his ex

Anonymous 2d

Yea, honey that’s a red flag.

Anonymous 1d

I noticed men especially have a much harder time getting over their exes and they will absolutely continue to date people when they are not over it. I say leave that man and let him figure out his own shit if he comes back in a couple of years and you’re both in the right time for it and then go for it but don’t wait around for this man. Go live your life

Anonymous 1d

Okay, maybe I’m oblivious, but I feel like, depending on the app, if they’re someone that usually follows people from various points in their history and they’ve gotten past that heartache phase, maybe it doesn’t mean anything. I stay on good terms with people I’ve dated, and I’ve followed them, chatted with them occasionally. The question is, is he the kind of person who would do that? Or is he someone that would go behind your back? It is suspicious behavior.

Anonymous

#5 1d

I don’t know him well enough but thank you for your comment, I think I overreacted in the sense that we don’t owe each other anything right now as it’s fairly fresh. So I’m going to cool off and if he wants things more serious I’m going to possibly ask him if he’s in contact with any exs. If this drags out for more than 2 months I’ll let it go, I appreciate everyone’s comments though!!

Anonymous

OP 1d

You’re welcome, it’s def a reasonable concern. Trust yourself. Here’s hoping it all goes well for you