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Is it ok to lie to women I’m interested in about my body count if they ask me judgmentally? I just feel like it’s no business of theirs what I did before as long as I’m clean/healthy.
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Anonymous 1w

Lying about your history is dumb because people always find out one way or another

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Anonymous 1w

No, bc 1)lying is never good. 2) it does matter

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Anonymous 1w

I agree that it’s not their business as long as you’re clean and healthy, but it’s not good to lie about these things.

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Anonymous 1w

if you don’t want to tell them the number then tell them you’re not comfortable. or find someone who’s less judgmental. lying about that to appear more appealing is never okay.

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Anonymous 1w

Just be honest and if she feels some type of way, she’s not the one to spend time with anyway🤷‍♀️ as a girl, I have my own personal views on body count. But as a person, why waste time on someone who judges you from the jump? It’ll also kick you in the ass for lying in the long run.

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Anonymous 1w

I would not start anything with dishonesty, especially when it comes to sexual past. If you feel like them asking about it is breaching your privacy, I would just tell them you don’t wanna disclose it and if they don’t wanna engage anymore then try with someone who doesn’t care about it.

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Anonymous 1w

Sure, but you’re cooked if they find out

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

1) There are plenty of times lying is good. 2) why does it matter?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Lying is never good. It matters because sex is supposed to be between two people and it only ever be between that couple. If one person has had sex outside of that couple, the other person will constantly be in doubt of themselves and compare themselves to other ppl you have been with

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