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She lost her virginity and hooked up with 31 guys freshman year but hasn’t hooked up with anyone since and we are juniors. Is that too big of a red flag or should I go for it?
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Anonymous 4d

RED FLAG 🚩🚩🚩

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Anonymous 4d

I feel like I went through a hoe phase my freshman year so I can’t judge too much, but 31 is A LOT. That’s a crazy number especially just in 1 year. At that point you have to be giving it up to literally anybody. Idk, I would think that’s a red flag if I were a guy

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Anonymous 4d

There’s no difference between a guy having sex with a lot of people and a woman having sex. There just isn’t.

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Anonymous 4d

She hadn’t since so why not go for it

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Anonymous 4d

I gave someone with over 50 a chance he’s actually cool

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Anonymous 4d

Do not entertain ‘reformed’ Thots she’s probably lying about not doing it anymore lmao

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Anonymous 3d

She’s complete filth.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

I’m worried that sort of stuff stays with her in a way

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

it absolutely does, scientifically.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

It’s a bit different for men due to the societal connotations of sex and giving it up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

that’s not how I view it. I’m a virgin so over 50 definitely required grace and an open mind.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

i wouldn't even think of it like that because most people are not going to know that information about her. scientifically, she's going to have a harder time forming deep, long-term emotional connections due to her sex spree.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

men and women are built different. it's different for a man to have slept with 50 women than a woman sleeping with 50 men. it's just the way we're biologically built.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Good points

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

and again, regardless of your opinion as a virgin someone with a body count of over 50 required an open mind. I could easily write him off but I didn’t. you’re not the comment patrol shut the fuck up.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

someone is real mad for no reason.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

who’s going to check me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Im a guy and there's no difference between a guy having sex with 50 women or a woman having sex with 50 guys. Don't let the world fool you.

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Anonymous replying to -> eddyis2live 4d

i'm not letting the world fool me. it's science and biology my friend. i don't think anyone should be sleeping around to have 50 bodies, but i'm not going to ignore reality either.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

the way this is called ask women and you’re camping out as a man answering as a man

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

i'm actually a woman. thanks! 🥰

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

yeah sure lmfaoaoa

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

you don't have to believe me. doesn't mean i don't have a vagina. there's probably nothing i can do to change your mind because you don't believe a woman can have the views i have.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

and I don’t. moving along

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

yikes. well guess what, women believe exactly what i've said because i'm not the only who believes what i shared. you should get out of the echo chamber you're living in. 😽🫶🏼

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

mind you I didn’t say anything about women’s ability to pair bond after being promiscuous I said promiscuity is promiscuity regardless of gender. you should read what you’re replying to before trying to police other people’s comments it’s almost as if it’s called ask women so different people can chip in. pea brain bitch

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

welcome to people replying to your comments darling 😽

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

yeah and welcome to getting a response hoe

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

you're so mad. you really should get that checked. it's not good to be so mad over a convo.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

now I’m mad because you’re getting clocked. lmfaoaoao right bitch

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 4d

Studies show otherwise

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4d

some folks don't care about studies. they want women to feel emboldened to sleep with whoever because women "empowerment". lying to women.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4d

Okay, show me the studies then

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 4d

let me pull one of the leftist tactics — research it yourself.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 4d

What do you want to see that will change your mind and then I will provide it. You need to list your expectations so the goalposts don’t shift

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4d

I want to see a well researched study, from a non-biased source that claims what you have said. That women are more effected by having casual sex then men are, without the outliers of SW.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

I have never seen in all my time on this app with people making these claims a single actual study about it. And I have in fact looked online for these things because I research.

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Anonymous replying to -> basedgigatruecel 3d

Basedgigatruecel has spoken

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