i already get looked at with just wearing normal shoes. i just wanna feel like i can blend in

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I struggle with this as well. I’m 5’10 almost 5’11 in the shoes I normally wear and 5’9 in no shoes. The guys I like want shorter women and the guys that want me are shorter than me. And unfortunately I’m not lesbian so I’m stuck single or unhappy. No happy medium

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Honestly, just give chances to shorter guys. They’ll treat ya right

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You get with one guy over 6’4 and realize there’s no better way to live. You feel petite and it’s wonderful. Then you can start building your superiority complex where you feel like your towering over people is a power move, not a monstrosity

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