Anonymous twirling_tornado 6w

the relationship is the prize, not the man or woman

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Anonymous #2 6w

nah

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Anonymous #3 6w

Not to mention if he had a whole plan he was looking forward to and you accidentally ruined it. Puts a damper on things.

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 6w

Kinda reductive no?

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Anonymous #4 5w

what is being reduced here

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 5w

No way ur that dense

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 5w

Is the man not the prize in relationships for you? What is the prize, then, sex?

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Anonymous #3 5w

like i said the reason a man proposes is bc the woman is the prize, and no, i’m waiting till marriage

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 5w

you’re a narcissist

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 5w

No, like, literally, for you, what’s the prize in a relationship? What do you date for?

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Anonymous #3 5w

i date for marriage. but its the man’s job to view the woman as the prize which is why its a nice gesture for him to be the one proposing and giving her a ring

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Anonymous #2 5w

propose to ur bf then lmao

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 5w

I’ll propose to my gf who actually views me as a prize back? Relationships aren’t a 1 way street

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 5w

if you’re the prize by yourself then what is the point of getting a bf lol

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Anonymous #2 5w

ok and why are u proposing to her? why isnt she proposing to u?

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 5w

Because men are often expected to be the leaders and initiate things?

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Anonymous #2 5w

ok we’ll go with that

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 5w

No you are not dating for marriage. If marriage itself was the prize, you’d have gotten married to any ol shmuck way before now. You must have something you’re looking for, right?

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Anonymous #3 5w

i’m dating for marriage with a good guy who proposes to me

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 5w

(and agrees with me on all the important stuff + shares my lifestyle aka my bf)

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 5w

There you go, thank you. The prize for you, then, is a good guy that shares your lifestyle and values, and one of those values is that the man is the one who proposes. So the reason you wouldn’t propose is because you have traditional values and want a man that shares those values.

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Anonymous #3 5w

pretty much 👍

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 5w

👍

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