not necessarily, it’s very likely she just realized her feelings were platonic

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She said she was before the date I think where I messed up is not asking to hold her hand and not asking her more intimate questions, since we had talked about how she was wanting a sub dom dynamic. It just seems really dumb to me that she’d dead the connection when we vibed across the board as she said, minus me not showing enough affection I guess, on our date, so she didn’t feel enough romantic connection

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Yeah I get it dude I fucked up. I realized that after the date.

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calling someone a pussy is rude asf, not sugarcoating ≠ sourcoating

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I didnt ask you to not sugarcoat it. I understand what you said and I’m not mad. I’m mad at myself and also at her cuz we’re compatible and I didn’t hold her hand or ask her enough intimate questions, and those are things that I think were why she didn’t feel that spark. The convo flowed and she seemed interested besides that. It’s frustrating that some will dead connections over small things like this, but then so many will stay with toxic and or abusive dudes and ignore the red flags

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