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Ask Women 15h
Ladies, would you bothered if a guy strikes up a conversation with you at like barnes and noble and then asks for your number?
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Anonymous 14h

As long as it’s not talking about his favorite manga that is basically just porn (yes this has happened to me)

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Anonymous 10h

I wouldn’t mind as long as he’s polite and doesn’t dog on me Also is simpler to give her your number- that way she’s not put on the spot and can text you whenever she feels, rather than being put on the spot. It’s not a big thing, but is tends to make me more comfortable :)

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Anonymous 13h

i wouldn’t mind it! yk just be aware of typical social cues like having headphones in :)

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Anonymous 8h

It’s flattering as long as it’s not done in an uncomfortable way, for example, coming in too close and too strong or cornering someone is veryyyyyy uncomfortable

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Anonymous 15h

no, has happened to me in other settings

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Anonymous 13h

Not at all! I would welcome it

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Anonymous 11h

Depends on the approach 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

Valid, I just am trying to figure out where I can talk to girls bc I don’t like bars yk and the gym just feels wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13h

Yeah headphones in I don’t talk to people unless asking them to please move or how many sets at the gym

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

Could u explain?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 10h

How would one go about giving your number out without sounding like “oh I’m so cool u want it”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

honestly id like just give it with a “absolutely no pressure but if u want to talk more, here’s my number” after a conversation, or like offer “oh im sorry i have to get going, i really liked talking with u tho, can i give u my number?”

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9h

Oooooh that’s good I should do that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

If a man stands too close, I’ll get creeped out. If he moves too fast I’ll feel like he just wants sex. If he approaches friendly, strikes up a convo about a common interest book then it would probably work.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9h

Fair

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

Short convo and then “you seem cool, if it’s mutual call me” Don’t write it in advance tho, or you’ll seem like you’re just there to pick up women and not cause she’s unique

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9h

Fair fair. Something like find interest, compliment the interest leave number?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

Carry a felt pen to write it on her arm. Classic move. Much better than just putting it in her phone.

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