Ask Women on Sidechat | would you be upset at your long distance partner for texting/snapping/calling a “friend” that likes them 2-4 a week without you knowing? and hitting softballs together at a facility once? you find out through their phone, not them telling you. or no?

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Ask Women 12w

would you be upset at your long distance partner for texting/snapping/calling a “friend” that likes them 2-4 a week without you knowing? and hitting softballs together at a facility once? you find out through their phone, not them telling you. or no?

Anonymous 12w

Ya i would be rlly upset

Anonymous 12w

If they’re fully aware that person likes them then absolutely yes. Also a red flag if they felt the need to keep it to themself

Anonymous 12w

If they were just friends a call or two a week/ hanging out in public wouldn’t bother me, but that’s a bit excessive and suspicious tbh… if they were really long phone calls too then yeah, that would definitely upset me.

Anonymous

#1 12w

They told me “I think they do like me” and didn’t tell me bc apparently they knew I’d be upset bc they’re talking to another person of the opposite gender. Also apparently they met at this facility like year and a half ago and went on a date but that was the only time apparently..

Anonymous

OP 12w

Yeah if there was no actual reason to hide anything they should’ve just said something imo

Anonymous

#1 12w

I agree. In this scenario would you be upset? My bf is telling me it’s dumb that I’m upset bc he doesn’t like her and she is just a friend to him.

Anonymous

OP 12w

I personally would, being friends with people is fine but being friends with someone who you know has different feelings about it isn’t very appropriate. Especially not if you feel the need to keep it low key

Anonymous

#3 12w

I think him not telling you is what makes it worse though. Makes it look like he’s trying to hide something,