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Whole lotta upvotes but no comments. IDK WHAT TO DO 😭
This AMAZING girl and I have been friends for a couple years now. The ONLY thing keeping me from wanting her amorously was the fact that she didn’t want kids. Well… this weekend SHE TOLD ME SHE IS OPEN TO CHILDREN IN THE FUTURE. Idk what to do now😭😭
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Anonymous 3w

I don’t think any of us know either

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Anonymous 3w

Yea ask women a shit show rn, didn't answer my very innocent question either but I can try to help

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Anonymous 3w

You didn’t ask a question?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

So ima just hide in a hole

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Yeah you could do that if you want

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

What should i do is generally implied by the statement if “idk what to do “

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

No one is going to give you directions on how to proceed

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

It's exciting that she wants kids, but how did she bring this up and even if she wants kids that doesn't necessarily mean that she would want kids with you so don't jump the gun yet

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

You could ask her out but mention nothing about the kids because that's not why you want to date her. Instead, tell her that you enjoy your friendship and that you think she's a good person and you are interested in pursuing things for and if that's something she would want as well.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I’m Just looking for input from other women 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Thank you for your reply! We just spent a full weekend together going to one of the nearby cities. She told me one day at dinner and it’s just stuck with me and I really don’t want to rush anything for sure especially because I value her friendship more than almost anyone’s.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Sometimes it feels like this thread is only for ragebait or sexual questions sometimes 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I get your dilemma, you dont want to ruin your friendship. Its a hard thing to battle between

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