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Any tips on how to get over an almost three year relationship? Today he said “I don’t post our relationship because I feel like we aren’t gonna last because u don’t support my career.” his bio is “actor/model” & he isn’t one yet. He did a paid showcase.
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Anonymous 1d

Not posting your s/o is fine if everyone's on the same page but saying he doesn't think you're going to last THREE YEARS IN is fucking crazy

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Anonymous 1d

Oh honey he’s a loser

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Anonymous 1d

He’s literally telling you he doesn’t care in his actions and words. Pick a date after you’ve recovered and picture yourself without him, how much less you’ll have to think about his needs and him disrespecting you, how ur gonna live, maybe where ur gonna be. Create a good plan and something to look forward to

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Anonymous 1d

Also, he has posted me on snap stories and a few ig stories. But he looks single on all media. I don’t have any posts of us up and match the energy, but he don’t gaf

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Anonymous 18h

Bro you gotta dump him. Not only is he a loser, he’s just plain mean. If he’s really your friend, then he can stick around and still be friends afterwards (given that you want that). But dating him isn’t doing you any good

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Anonymous 18h

He’s just insecure and throwing things around to upset you and make you cling harder to him. He’s mentally abusive for that and you should leave him with your dignity babe

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Thank you. I naturally feel disgusted with myself because he is my best friend & I don’t wanna lose him. I am also recovering from major surgery so moving on rn seems horrible. I feel isolated. I don’t wanna start over.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Perfectly natural to feel all those things. Might be a good time to reach out to some friends or family you can trust to rebuild a bit of a support network

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