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Ask Women 23h
Is it even worth trying to date anymore? Everything just feels so transactional.
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Anonymous 22h

this is so dumb, stop trying to make everything black and white. obviously there's people out there for you, get out of your bubble and meet a different group of people, majority aren't like that

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Anonymous 22h

I’m not interested in dating either. You also don’t need to justify deciding that either. It’s your life, you decide what you want to do with it

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Anonymous 22h

Nowadays nothing is as good as it used to be. It only feels transactional cs of the type of ppl you go after.

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Anonymous 22h

I’m hoping for a unicorn, but my friend group is my best bet at a proper family

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Anonymous 18h

Dating has always been transactional

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Anonymous 17h

No. Dating is not worth it.

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Anonymous 11h

As a guy, no. As a girl, it’s never been better

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

You know, I wouldn’t say that if majority were like that that I meant. So stop saying it doesn’t happen because it literally does.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

never said it doesn't happen, obviously it does. but just going off of those experiences and coming on here being all "is it even worth it anymore" is dumb. we are tired of answering this question, if you genuinely can't find anyone and you think every girl is the same then either you are the problem or you are only going after a certain type of girl, which is why I said get out of your bubble and go meet different people

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

I’ve ran into so many at this point. And maybe my perception is skewed because of that. But I’ll take your advice on your consideration. Maybe I’m the problem.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

Well, that’s the thing I don’t think I go at the same type of girl, but now it always comes in and I’ve only talk to them maybe a week

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18h

So then your answer would be no

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Depends on looks. The better you look the less of a transaction exchange the other person expects

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