Ask Women on Sidechat | I just told my bf that I didn’t feel good mentally, so I asked if he could not play the game until he is ready for bed and give me some time.His response was “well if the boys are on, then I’m gonna keep playing”WOW..🙃🔫

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I just told my bf that I didn’t feel good mentally, so I asked if he could not play the game until he is ready for bed and give me some time.His response was “well if the boys are on, then I’m gonna keep playing”WOW..🙃🔫

Anonymous 3w

Yeah no. And as a gamer girl if I’m not mentally motivated even I hop off the game. And so would my bf bc we don’t NEED gaming. We can watch a movie and vibe and play later

Anonymous 3w

some of these comments YIKES. Providing support is the bare minimum when it comes to a relationship. Some of u guys acting like putting down a VIDEO GAME and spending some time w ur gf when she asked for some comfort and support is the worst thing to ever exist. Its like u guys dont realize when u do finally choose to settle down you will have to be there for ur partner thru the loss of their parents, thru childbirth, thru every rough patch ever. Your partner should be a safe spot.

Anonymous 3w

Maybe you should learn how to deal with your problems and not just expect him to drop whatever he wants to do just because you want him to.

Anonymous 3w

What does you not feeling good have to do with him. The fact you’re bothered by him enjoy himself while you are not okay is ridiculous. Just because you feel bad doesn’t mean he has to too. If you want to talk that’s a different story

Anonymous 3w

And that’s it on: dating a boy while wanting a man…

Anonymous 3w

Break up

Anonymous 3w

“I asked if he could not play until I go to bed” aka look at the wall because I’m sad. If she wanted to talk she’d talk to him instead of just asking him to not game

Anonymous 3w

Also she is not explicitly asking for support she’s just asking him not to play the game. She didn’t say “hey can we talk about x”

Anonymous 3w

At the end of the day he isn’t her therapist and she’s asking him to do emotional labor instead of enjoying his time off at the end of the day

Anonymous 3w

Probably when their partner constantly has said issues and doesn’t just see a therapist

Anonymous 3w

She should see a therapist and get help he’s not a professional to deal with her issues

Anonymous 3w

He’s probably dealt with this before and tiered from dealing with her complaints when she refuses to get help from a professional. I don’t think he’s in the wrong for protecting his own mental health and de-stressing at the end of a long days work

Anonymous 3w

Anonymous

#6 3w

this isnt even to say “be ur partners therapist” bc yes at the end of the day u arent responsible for someone elses emotional baggage. But it is still right and expected to still give support when needed. Helping ur s/o through rough patches is just the surface of what it means to be in a relationship. Some of u srsly need to grow up.