Ask Women on Sidechat | is it just me or is it genuinely hard to gaf about people who are interested in you romantically? like I WANT to be interested, but like i just cannot do it. maybe im not ready yet idk (also im a girl. this seems like smth a man would say)

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Ask Women 3w

is it just me or is it genuinely hard to gaf about people who are interested in you romantically? like I WANT to be interested, but like i just cannot do it. maybe im not ready yet idk (also im a girl. this seems like smth a man would say)

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Anonymous 3w

That’s a you thing I believe. Sounds like you aren’t ready to be dating.

Anonymous 2w

You could just not be interested. People might label it as asexual or aromatic, I feel like it’s an uncommon but normal thing. You could also just not like the pool or not be ready

Anonymous 2w

I have BPD and think I may be aromantic. It’s very confusing because I experience limerence so I feel like I should love and like people but when it boils down to it all I’m just obsessed with them but don’t actually want them. So it’s iffy if I just don’t like them, if I don’t like anyone, if I’ve just experienced so much trauma that I avoid liking people, or if it’s not just limerence and I actually do like them. Love’s complicated. Hormones are complicated.

Anonymous 2w

i mean hey, if you're not interested, you're not interested