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Ask Women 32w
people in long term relationships, what advice would u give to someone in their first relationship
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Anonymous 32w

Get this in your head: “ the problem is not YOU vs HIM. It’s YOU AND HIM vs the problem” This mentality will get your relationship through almost anything

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Anonymous 32w

Don’t let anger get bottled up and resentment grow. Address problems head on early before they grow into something bigger!

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Anonymous 32w

Silliness and whimsy are very important

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Anonymous 32w

Respect yourself and your boundaries. Do not suck up to men just to please them.

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Anonymous 32w

have boundaries and know ur standards ahead of time, make sure he meets those before you get attached, and don’t get caught in the sunk cost fallacy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 32w

This! I’ve been in a handful of relationships over the past year and I’ve learned that a good partner is supposed to support you, not try to fight against you. Prime example, I’ve been with my bf for going on 4 months and he’s already insisting that he help support me financially through college. Despite my constant stressing that he didn’t have to do that he insists

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 32w

Applies to all genders

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