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Ask Women 16h
If on a first date with a guy, things escalate to the point where it’s clear ur ab to have sex, how would u feel in both situations: 1) He has a condom on him 2) He doesn’t have one on him In both situations he is only comfortable with protected sex
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5 upvotes, 20 comments. Sidechat poll by Anonymous in Ask Women. "If on a first date with a guy, things escalate to the point where it’s clear ur ab to have sex, how would u feel in both situations: 1) He has a condom on him 2) He doesn’t have one on him In both situations he is only comfortable with protected sex"
Has: Awesome! Doesn’t: Nbd!
Has: Awesome! Doesn’t: Mood killer
Has: Presumpt. Doesn’t: Nbd!
Has: Presumpt. Doesn’t: Mood killer
I don’t date guys
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Anonymous 15h

If he’s trying for sex while he KNOWS he doesn’t have a condom I will purée him idc

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Anonymous 16h

why is everyone saying the second is a mood killer?? better safe than sorry people

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Anonymous 15h

I wouldn’t have sex on the first date but I’m glad he has one and it’s not a turn off

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Anonymous 13h

for me it’s the first one bc him having one just means he’s prepared just in case (if this is a first date, he may have been sleeping w others recently so for me it doesn’t necessarily imply anything else), and if he doesn’t have one but wants to get one it’s no big, we all have moments like that

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Anonymous 15h

I agree with 2. I wouldn’t have sex on the first date

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Anonymous 11h

lol I’ve never used a condom you guys are babies

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

Well personally I wouldn’t have sex on the first date and the fact that he’s already trying to would be a moodkiller

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

i agree and also don't but the framing of the question is that it was going to happen for whatever reason

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 11h

Babies are what youre gonna he having if you keep being stupid but go ahead

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

be*

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 11h

Tell your good friends S, T, and D I said hello

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

Good thing dumpsters exist

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11h

It’s STI

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 11h

Yikes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

You don’t like dumpster babies?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 11h

8 you know ur actually making an argument for condoms in more ways than one, right?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

He’s trolling, best to stop replying

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11h

I mean I could see him not going in intending on it but things just end up going that way

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Good, only I go without a condom. Everyone else should be using one

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

Ik but I saw an opportunity to make that joke and I took it lol

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