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If on a first date with a guy, things escalate to the point where it’s clear ur ab to have sex, how would u feel in both situations: 1) He has a condom on him 2) He doesn’t have one on him In both situations he is only comfortable with protected sex
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5 upvotes. Sidechat poll by Anonymous in Ask Women. "If on a first date with a guy, things escalate to the point where it’s clear ur ab to have sex, how would u feel in both situations: 1) He has a condom on him 2) He doesn’t have one on him In both situations he is only comfortable with protected sex"
Has: Awesome! Doesn’t: Nbd!
Has: Awesome! Doesn’t: Mood killer
Has: Presumpt. Doesn’t: Nbd!
Has: Presumpt. Doesn’t: Mood killer
I don’t date guys
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Anonymous 9w

If he’s trying for sex while he KNOWS he doesn’t have a condom I will purée him idc

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Anonymous 9w

why is everyone saying the second is a mood killer?? better safe than sorry people

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Anonymous 9w

I wouldn’t have sex on the first date but I’m glad he has one and it’s not a turn off

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Anonymous 9w

for me it’s the first one bc him having one just means he’s prepared just in case (if this is a first date, he may have been sleeping w others recently so for me it doesn’t necessarily imply anything else), and if he doesn’t have one but wants to get one it’s no big, we all have moments like that

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Anonymous 9w

I agree with 2. I wouldn’t have sex on the first date

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Anonymous 9w

People do all of this on the first date? Seems like I am not doing things right

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Anonymous 9w

i agree and also don't but the framing of the question is that it was going to happen for whatever reason

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

I mean I could see him not going in intending on it but things just end up going that way

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 9w

I wouldn’t either, but I meant IF we just decided you know what why not

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

I wouldn’t either, but I meant IF we just decided you know what why not

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Anonymous 9w

I wouldn’t either, but I meant IF we just decided you know what why not

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

Yeah exactly what I meant

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