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Ask Women 1d
Can a girl give me advice about how to approach girls? Like idk what to say or do to not be awkward or weird abt it bc it feels like that’s what girls think when guys do it
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Anonymous 1d

Personally I can’t go on a date with someone I don’t know, for safety reasons. If you’re trying to start up a conversation just talk to her like she’s a person and not someone you have put on a pedestal. Try not to interrupt her if she is doing something and just be respectful

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Anonymous 7h

I honestly prefer when a man is visibly nervous. I think it’s cute, and it also makes me feel a little safer. Obv you shouldn’t fake that, but basically don’t worry about being nonchalant. But start up a conversation, be polite, and if she tells you no just leave, don’t linger. Usually trying to bring up a shared hobby/experience is good, if you share a class or smth. Otherwise compliments and stuff is nice. Obv, tho, not everyone is gonna react positively to the same thing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7h

Most girls are gonna be polite if they reject you. And also- if you approach a girl and they aren’t jiving- don’t think about it like you failed at approaching! It’s more likely you guys just aren’t compatible. If you have good intentions, you likely aren’t gonna come off as a creep.

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