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So I have a crush on this guy in my philosophy class. He sits 1 seat over from me. We've only had maybe 2 conversations the whole semester. One where we were debating and the other were he complimented my necklace. Pt 1
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Anonymous 5w

I look at him a lot in class and sometimes I think I catch him looking at me. I'm too scared to do anything. Maybe before the semester is over I will. I just dk if he has a gf either. What should I do? Pt 2

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Anonymous 5w

what’s the worst that could happen? i say just go for it

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Anonymous 5w

Ask him out for lunch after class or a coffee ☕️

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Anonymous 5w

Do it at the end of the semester

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I'm scared he'll reject me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

and that’s the worst that can happen. you’ll get rejected in a lot of scenarios throughout life. learning to be okay with rejection is good :p plus what if he doesn’t!! there’s so many outcomes, it’s best just to take the leap

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Thxx

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

That's a good idea. Thanks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

OP u got this. As a guy, him complimenting your necklace was a subtle flirt, at least it would be if I did that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

Thank you. I messaged him a bit ago. It's the weekend and I did it on a school platform so I don't expect him to reply this weekend. Hopefully we'll see some good.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

i’m so proud of u! i hope all goes well ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Thank youu

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