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so I dmed this really nice girl I talked to like 3 times a while ago and I don’t know her too well but she said she’d b down to hang out. The convo ended in a way that she would lmk when she’s free but it’s been a few days. I don’t think she’d ghost so sh
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Anonymous 1d

should I reach back out again? I think she wouldn’t ghost because she’s very sweet and doesn’t seem like the person to do that. But I also don’t want to seem pushy. Whether or not this becomes a relationship or a friendship I’d be happy bc her energy is great. So should I wait a bit more or dm her again?

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Anonymous 1d

id say to reach out again

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I just don’t want to seem pushy bc I asked her to message me or get back to me when she had the chance and I feel like dming her again is pushy. Should I just yolo it or just cut this off?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

how many days has it been?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

well if you asked her to reach out when she’s not busy and it’s been a few days she could just be rly busy. i would give it a lil more time and then ask if she’s still down. or you can always just say smth like “hey i don’t wanna bother u but is everything good?” and if she doesn’t respond after that i wouldn’t text again

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

If she ain’t talking to you it’s cuz she don’t want to, if u reach out again you’ll look like a desperate freak, some girls r too nice to say they’re not interested leave poor girl alone

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15h

oh I didn’t know it could be like this 😭mb mb

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

Like a week

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