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Women complain men aren’t paying attention. Men don’t pay attention / check you out, because they’re afraid of being labeled creepy. What is the solution?
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Anonymous 19h

Pay attention appropriately Don’t stare at women’s bodies unless you’re in a promiscuous club or something, don’t ask employees out or women who are busy with something, take no for an answer and hold fellow men accountable for not being able to do that

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Anonymous 19h

Those two things can be true at the same time. Some women want attention some don’t, same as men. Some women want to be checked out some don’t, same as men. The solution is just to have a conversation. If the person seems down to talk, do so. If they are in the middle of a set at the gym, in a conversation, or doing something by themselves and look like they don’t want to talk then don’t

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Anonymous 14h

signal that you’re a safe person if you’re a man. approach men if you’re a woman. fuck gender roles. problem solved.

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