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Do you wish you had relationship foresight? Like knowing if you’d get along and stay together when you initially talk to them. I’d take the power just so I didn’t waste my time on something that wouldn’t mean anything
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Anonymous 3w

Oh absolutely. But since I don’t have that, learning how people work is the method I’m going with

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I wish I could like that method

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Yeah me too. I do fine with honest ppl, the issue is insecure ppl who lie about who they are

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

So I think ima set up a lie test to do on people in the early stages. Not sure exactly how… needs to be something they’d want to lie about that isn’t super serious but is still something I should know. Maybe I’ll pretend to like something nobody would ever like, see if they make up a lie about liking that thing too, and then tell them I was just doing a lie detector test.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Or actually, I’ll just be honest about the fact that I like the smell of marshes. If they also like that thing, next date is to a big stinky marsh and the plan is to get nice and muddy. Then I don’t have to lie in order to test their honesty

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