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I really like this guy and he likes me and it’s killing me because he’s older (7 years but I’m 21 so perfectly legal ofc) and he’s wise about things that I don’t even think about and ig I’m just worried he’ll think I’m small minded or something🥲
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Anonymous 2w

Lowkey thats a whole lot of living that he’s done that you haven’t, it makes sense that he seems wise. Not saying that this can’t work in a healthy way but I’d be kinda wary

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Anonymous 2w

if he thinks ur small minded it wasn’t meant to be then tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Yea there are already small differences that honestly don’t matter like the fact that he had this rule about not being on the phone while in bed which I get if we were spending quality time together but I genuinely don’t fall asleep early and he does so I usually just scroll on TikTok or something yk😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Or the fact that he doesn’t care about his phone which is okay but I’m a big texter and he’s not which ig him being more of showing affection in person makes up for it but ig me being chronically online I just hate that we don’t text as much as I would like

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

That’s not necessarily an age difference problem, it’s just who yall are as people. Me and my bf are the opposite. I’m five years younger and never online and he is always online. Maybe stop and think, do you actually like him and can imagine a life with him? Or do you just like the attention he’s giving you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

He’s never gives me the impression that he thinks that in fact he’s a very honest and out spoken person so I feel like he would voice it if it were true but I just wonder it myself

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

i think that’ll always be an “insecurity” / thought you have, and it’s normal to have thoughts like that. just see how it plays out, maybe at some point have a talk about it, but don’t change yourself to be to his standard

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Honestly I really like him and I’m glad that you mentioned how things are the same in your relationship except backwards for me and he’s already shown that he wants things to be long term which is great and as for the attention thing I love it ofc and he REALLY likes giving it but I personally don’t show it as much as him but I voice it which counts for something

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