Anonymous #1 8w

Being in shape is cool but also pay attention to hygiene, grooming, fashion, and the way you carry yourself

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Anonymous #1 8w

I do

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Anonymous #2 8w

Physical attraction women want

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Anonymous OP 8w

They want that yes. They also want other things, and not to be rude, but the fact that your mind immediately went to “I must be too attractive” and not “maybe it has to do with my personality” says a LOT. You seem like kinda a jerk.

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Anonymous #2 8w

I said unattractive and women still care about physical attraction first before other qualities are entertained

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Anonymous OP 8w

Yep, but your other qualities still can be deal breakers, and based on how you’re talking, they probably are

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Anonymous #2 8w

So if you are not a physically attractive man it’s over you proved my point

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Anonymous OP 8w

I never said physical attraction didn’t matter, I said it’s not the only thing that matters. You’re proving MY point. You can’t get a girlfriend because you’re a narcissist and fall for red pill bullshit.

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Anonymous #2 8w

You need to be an attractive man to even get in the door to test those other qualities

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Anonymous OP 8w

Not true at all actually

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Anonymous #2 7w

I do have a question. Are physical looks the first thing u guys notice or his confidence, his personality, and the way he’s talking to u when a guy approaches u

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Anonymous #3 7w

Looks are the first thing women judge you on

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Anonymous #3 7w

I’m not 2 but I mean looks are the first thing we “notice” because that’s just how eyesight works, when you meet someone you see them before you understand their personality. But appearance only matters a little, if someone has an amazing personality and would be a great match for my lifestyle I would start to develop an attraction with appearance playing a very minimal amount

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Anonymous #1 7w

So if he has a good personality but is chopped, u would still give him a chance by giving him ur phone number or insta?

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Anonymous #3 6w

Sorry for the late response. Your question doesn’t really have a “one or the other” answer because the two are very interconnected. There’s a ton of research on the subject, and things like facial expressions, posture, friendliness, etc. have radical affects on perceived attraction. Walk around moping because of how ugly you are, and you’re gonna make yourself ugly

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