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Ask Women 13h
I’m traveling SE Asia and it’s actually amazing how women here treat you like a real human being with feelings and actual respect and try to build a connection with you vs in the US they treat you like an insect. What do u think drives the difference?
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Anonymous 13h

You aren’t normally treated like a human being with feelings and respect? That’s crazy. Do you know why they would do that?

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Anonymous 13h

They tryna get that green card bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

Not in the U.S. in social settings or on the apps, no, I don’t think I’m treated like a human being with feelings and respect by women I don’t know

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

On dating apps specifically or social media? Those are built to keep you fucked over and on them all the time. Social settings wise I’m sorry that happens to you. Everyone deserves decency unless they’re like a rapist or something of course

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

I don’t know why I’m being downvoted here as I’m sharing my perspective as a man, one that women here haven’t experienced 😭 feels a little invalidating

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

I am also being downvoted. People do that sometimes

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

Dating apps and social settings in general. I don’t use social media so I couldn’t sayz

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

Actually tbh a lot of women are racist on TikTok too and as a POC man that sucks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

A lot of men are racist there too. I agree it sucks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

bc this is very adjacent to the misogynistic “passport bro” thing that was going on for a while. not saying u believe in that but we notice what we’ve learned to treat as warning signs

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5h

I don’t think it’s as simple as that

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5h

What’s passport bro?

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