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Definitely going to upset people with this question, but I’m not saying it’s all guys. But why is it that I’m running into more guys that need a mother and not a girlfriend? I feel at 22 a guy who can’t cook because “he’s a man” isn’t a valid excuse.
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Anonymous 5w

so many guys need a mom and i was so burned out being the mom, the therapist, the maid, the cook, ect. for men that i gave up until i met my fiancé and i realized that i had been dating men who were functionally children when he could cook, clean, had more than one pillow, knew what a mop was, knew how to fix stuff around the house, knew how to reset the wifi router, knew basic hygiene, did his own taxes, ect. and that i found that all insanely attractive.

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Anonymous 5w

One of my best friends can’t cook. Her reaction? Asking us to help her learn how. It’s okay to not know, but how you handle the knowledge gap is what matters

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Anonymous 5w

My buddies ex 22 never had preheated an oven dead ass never uses an oven “My mom cooks for me”

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Anonymous 5w

My Stepbrother is like this.. 24 years old and lives at home working part time gaming the rest and if his Mom or my Dad don’t cook he just lives off cereal and takeout. He has no desire to learn and assumes eventually a woman will come along and do it for him. The worst part is my Stepmom supports his behavior. Ughh!

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Anonymous 5w

i dont really know the context but you should know how to cook stuff no later than 16 even if you have other people cook for you

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Anonymous 5w

It’s so stupid when someone needs a caretaker when going into a relationship. Like you’re supposed to both be independent and capable of basic tasks before you go into a relationship 🥀

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Anonymous 4w

Ngl that’s your problem you need to find the right guy

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Anonymous 5w

Darling, you just like losers 🤷‍♂️. The family babied him too long and now he can’t live his own life

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

The second sentence is correct. The first one isn’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

How is it not?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Bc ppl don’t just “like losers” you moron

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 5w

it had me realizing that so many men (not all but a lot of the ones i have known) don’t know how to take care of themselves or actually do anything around the house because society doesn’t expect them too. whereas most women know how to cook, clean, and take care of themselves as well as others at a much younger age.

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