keep doing what youre doing. basically you have too much style and emotional intelligence for women to think youre actually in their dating pool

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are you talking to alternative women ? they might be more receptive of ur style

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I have a friend who everyone calls a “performative male” when in reality he’s just like that. There’s this preconceived notion that if a man is dressing confidently that he is doing it to get with women or is gay. Unfortunately those ideas are hard to break through but I wish you good luck 🫡

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i'm not saying this is true in the slightest, but basically any man with hygiene and a sense of style comes across as gay because straight men simply do not do those things

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Change nothing. Be yourself. Please don’t change

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Dont change your style(s), its def attractive! You might jus be talking to the wrong women? I think that the right woman will appreciate your sense of style and expression.

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keep being you!! passion and authenticity is so important. maybe consider like a "straight ally" flag pin tho

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Yeah if they are calling you gay like that you don’t wanna be with them the true one for you wouldn’t do such a thing and the actual good partners will treat you the way you want to be treated don’t change buddy

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I mean you can drop the name of an ex in conversation or flirt and it should get then on across

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tell them ur a metrosexual

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