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Ok so I’m a gay guy who can’t talk to men for the life of him. How do I find a dl frat guy without all of their friends finding out or getting too self conscious being around a bunch of guys
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Anonymous 1d

I’ve seen people on my school page on here finding dl hookups

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Anonymous 1d

Can you explain what you mean? Why are you trying to find someone who’s not like- publicly out? (If I misunderstood the please correct me)

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Anonymous 1d

grindr maybe?

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Anonymous 1d

why would you prefer a dl guy

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Anonymous 1d

Get into a hobby that has the body type you’re looking for

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I tried that but either they don’t reply or they only want nudes

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

You could also try tinder maybe

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Because all the ones that are out (which I’ve seen a few) are really not my type. So i’m hoping someone I haven’t seen IS gay but hasn’t said anything will be my type

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

maybe ask a group for men/ gay men. not really sure how to help you here

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Trying tinder, downloaded like 2 days ago. Nothing :/

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

But I’ll look out for something, also I want more of a relationship, less of a hookup situation

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Valid. But I’ll keep it real with u, you might struggle pretty hard to find someone who’s both dl and in a frat who wants to have a real relationship instead of just hooking up

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Yeah… but I’m searching for treasure in a sea of garbage. I still believe theres treasure out there though

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