
Slow burn—talk to her, complement her, talk her through it, tell her what feels good. Obvi communication is important, but more than that, I think it’s kind of essential is building up that arousal and sustaining it. Also, generally, men go too rough, too fast, too hard, which kind of undermines the buildup to a pleasurable experience. Go slower and softer than you think and read her body language (+ what she says too ofc) and adjust from there