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Since we are upvoting non questions. Im a guy who got raped by his ex. She knew i would be at the bar so she texted asking if I was drunk. I just happened to be blackout drunk that night and she was sober. She sent me paragraphs of how it was my fault.
“not all men” yet it’s always a man
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Anonymous 10w

When i say just happened to be. Usually i wasn’t that drunk but it was around the holidays and the bar hella over served me. Idek how i got to her place

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Anonymous 10w

I’m sorry that happened to you. It was NOT your fault, and you don’t deserve that. I know ppl in similar situations, and the lack of legal justice is just as bad for male survivors as it is for women. Maybe worse because people at least sometimes believe women. The same cops who throw out women’s rape kits will dismiss male survivors because they aren’t women.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

For justice (or at least prevention of future rapes) I’ve been going to non-law sources. There is a website called namehim.io where people can report rapists. It was kinda made for women, but there’s no rule against reporting female rapists. It counts how many ppl reported a name, and Trump has been reported many times.

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