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Is it wrong to cut off someone who you thought was a friend but realized they see you as more of an acquaintance? I took a step back from the friendship & realized we rarely speak or hangout if not for me & I find it really draining.
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Anonymous 1d

I wouldn’t cut them off. Not everyone needs to be your best friend. But I do think that matching their energy is the right move

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Anonymous 1d

I mean without a conversation. I feel like it would be a waste of time when she doesn’t value the relationship as much as I do.

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Anonymous 1d

If you don’t find yourself having fun you could also just cut it off but I’d give it a moment

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Anonymous 19h

I (personally, so you don’t have to listen to me) wouldn’t cut it off, I’d just scale it back to whatever level they put into it. I sometimes have a hard time distinguishing between friend and acquaintance unless it’s explicitly verbalized, so I often assume they see me as an acquaintance until they straight up refer to me as a friend

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