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Pretty girl at work: I have a boyfriend Me: proceeds to leave her alone next time I see her because I don’t want any chance of a harassment case after getting shot down Pretty girl at work: oh so I guess you can’t talk to me anymore TRANSLATE PLEASE😭
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Anonymous 1w

you know you can still have friendly conversations with coworkers even when they’re in relationships right

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Anonymous 1w

She enjoys your attention and doesn't want that to end just because she isn't single

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Anonymous 1w

Honestly, I’d be kind of hurt. Because what your actions convey is that your only intention was to get with her or fuck around with her. That comes off as extremely disingenuous and shallow tbh

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Anonymous 1w

attention whore

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Anonymous 6d

You can have male friends while still being in a relationship especially since it’s at work

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Anonymous 5d

Option 1 continue minimal/cordial professional interactions Option 2. Explain to her that because of the complex social environment we all live in now you are terrified of crossing some line that could be arbitrarily drawn. As a result you need her to write up a detailed booklet explaining her SPECIFIC preferences on how you can safely interact with her. That document needs to be signed in Adobe Acrobat with her digital signature and emailed to you as a PDF.

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 1w

she’s prolly just weirded out that you took “i have a bf” to mean “ignore my existence entirely” unless she’s like genuinely tryna do some shady shit with you and she just likes the attention of men talking to her even tho she has a bf

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

No thats not my intentions, its just that a week ago my older sister had to file a complaint because a guy wouldn’t leave her alone after she told him she was married. I struggle with social queues so I just tried to give her distance to be safe. My confusion comes from would it not be disrespectful to a relationship to become friends with the woman knowing that I had intentions on asking her out? I’d not be happy if my partner gained a friend that started as them asking the person out.

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 1w

I mean like thats what i’m worried about 😭 I don’t want to be a homewrecker. I didn’t even ask her out SHE called me out for the fact that I called her pretty to my friend then cracked jokes about it the whole shift because i’d get nervous. She didn’t bring up her boyfriend until I was with someone who asked if she was single 😭

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